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Date Night Gone Bad
Derek and Missy Irvin Discuss how a recent date night conflict got away from them and what they did about it. Has This Ever Happened to...
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Creating A New Dance In Your Marriage
Derek and Missy Irvin Discuss how when one of you starts to get healthy that sometimes it can get worse before it gets better, but it is...
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Opposites Attract and Then They Attack
Derek and Missy Irvin Discuss how the very things that draw you together can later be the things that cause conflict. There is an old...
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Is Marriage Hard Work?
Derek and Missy Irvin Discuss the topic, "Is Marriage Hard Work?" I recently sat with a group of couples who were discussing the question...
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How Emotions Cause Conflict in Marriage
Derek and Missy Irvin Discuss How Emotions Can Cause Conflict in Marriage. Have you ever had a fight with your spouse about something...
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How To Choose a Marriage Counselor
Derek and Missy Irvin discuss the process, expectations, and outcomes of choosing the right marriage counselor for you as a couple. Dr....
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How To Get the Most Out of Marriage Counseling
Derek and Missy Irvin Discuss How to Get the Most Out of Your Marriage Counseling. If you are going to get the most out of marriage...
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Why do people not get the help they need when their marriage is struggling?
Derek and Missy Irvin discuss the reasons why couples don't get the help they need when their marriage is struggling. Different people...
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The Role of the Pursuer
All romantic relationships have a tendency to drift over time from feeling close to feeling distant. Busy lives, different needs, and...
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If You Have Broken Trust in the Relationship
If you are the one who has broken trust in the relationship it is likely that you are feeling a great deal of regret and shame. You see...
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If You Are Experiencing the Pain of Betrayal
If your spouse has broken trust in the relationship, you most likely are experiencing a whirlwind of emotions and pain. You never thought...
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How do I win my wife back? How do I win my husband back?
The tricky thing in determining how to best win back your spouse is that the right answer is different depending on some important...
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